Parenting is tough. There’s no denying it. Yes, there are so many beautiful, joyful moments, but let’s be honest – there are also some really hard ones. Our little ones don’t come with a manual (how amazing would that be?), and it’s okay to just be doing your best.
It’s okay if you gave the children cereal for dinner because you were too exhausted to cook a full meal. You’re not failing; your little ones are fed and loved. It’s okay to put the TV on for a bit so you can rest, even if just for a moment. It’s okay to ask for help when you need it. It’s okay to take a break. It’s okay to take things one day at a time.
Please, don’t forget that self-care is essential. You can’t pour from an empty cup! You’re doing your best, and that is more than enough. You will make mistakes – that’s part of being human. There are no perfect children and there are no perfect parents. We are all learning, all the time. Every single day.
Feeling guilty sometimes is completely normal. Embrace that feeling and then let it go. The fact that you worry even a little bit shows you’re doing an amazing job! So give yourself a break, trust yourself more, and remember: you are wonderful.
To your child, you are their world. Your love and care mean everything to them. Keep going – you are doing so much better than you think.
Guiding The Young Ones 
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